DOING IT RIGHT

[EVANGELIST PRINCE WISDOM OPURUM]

Beloved I would really want us to take full advantage of the fabulous massages that I have been sharing with you in the past, if we really want this period to bring YOU the happiness that fate has been holding for us that we had not yet experienced and enjoyed, I urge everyone of us not to hesitate to carefully read and read again the blogs that I have posting since a week plus without skipping a single line of it. because when you do you will see that God has not forgotten you:

Note our emotional development may have been delayed or it may simply be inadequate. because we do find it difficult to be warm and loving towards people because we have been hurt in the past and we fear it may happen again. I see it that we are stingy with material resources and with affection. some of us believe that everything must be earned and paid for ? there are no free lunches.
Because we find it difficult to express our feelings, we tend to show people how we feel by buying them gifts as a substitute for us and our feelings. Though we crave love and affection, intimacy is difficult for us. we have a shallow opinion of ourself and our own worth and talents. You do not understand why anyone could possibly love us. we feel that we are unlovable. Believe me beloved this is something we need to strongly work on as our life will continue to be miserable if we do not learn to change our attitude. we are as worthy of love as anyone else, but we must come to realize that for ourself. we must not let past experiences govern our actions and feelings for the rest of our life.

we are sometimes so serious and reserved persons who appears to others as cold, aloof, unfeeling and uncaring. believe me we are not necessarily these things, it's just that we are very cautious in letting anyone see the real us or in letting people get close to us. we want to love and be loved, but we find this very difficult.
let us remember that we must first have to give love to get love. just as God did by giving his only son to be crusfiled, Note you can't buy real love.
It doesn't work that way. we find it difficult to enjoy yourself in a light-hearted, open and playful way.
we understand work, duty and responsibility a lot better than we understand feelings, affection and love.
Rarely do we do anything for pleasure. If something involves work or getting something done, then that is pleasure for us.

note Others do not understand that about us. There are times, though, when we procrastinate and put off attending to necessities with the result that duties tend to pile up. let us learn how to balance the seriousness with life and the enjoyment of life. We may become romantically involved with people who do not value us or treat us well. we need to learn to love and value ourself before we will find happiness in love.
Security is very important to must us, yet we do not know how to feel secure. our fear of loss, of money, property, loved ones, etc., makes us very insecure. This negativity colors all our relationships for the worse. we must learn how to trust again. we must learn how to face our fears, even if it is painful. This is the only way we will ever overcome them. May God bless us as we reflect our minds to this massage.

Evangelist Prince Wisdom.